Path of Destruction

Ked is an active little fellow. He likes to explore anything new and typically leaves a path of destruction. He likes to pull things out and move things to new places. We find his blocks everywhere (including in the laundry, found after the wash).

He also likes to drop things into his crib. I've watched him put a couple of things in the trash and wonder if that's where the missing blocks have gone (and who knows what else?). The trash is now hidden, especially since he was taking things like pieces of tomato and orange peels out and eating them. Our desk drawers are completely in disarray. Haven't figured out what to do about those yet. The lower shelves of our bookcase are currently covered with cardboard. I am constantly putting away his and my clothes that he pulls out. I admit, I let him do a lot of these things because he enjoys it so much and it keeps him happy. There are some things he does without my permission, however. The other day I couldn't find my cell phone anywhere! After listening for it with numerous calls, I finally found it in the back room in a closed cardboard box where the extra packages of wipes are. . . Stay tuned for more adventures of parenthood!

Surfing Lessons

Sam caught me teaching Ked to surf. This was the paddling out part. He's a little slow getting upright, but he's totally a natural otherwise.

Ginger

This last week marked two years since Ginger passed away. I think I miss her even more now than before. It happened just three weeks after Sam's and my wedding, and there's a lot of fun and joy and challenges and uncertainties in family life that you want to talk to your sisters about! Recipes; remedies; financial challenges; pregnancy and labor; dates with the husband and fun activities with the kids; making the habits of family prayer, scripture study and family home evening meaningful; and a million other things. . . I wish I could hear her stories, learn from her experiences, get her suggestions and expert advice.

This had been in Erin's emergency comfort kit at school. (The teachers ask the parents to make one.) I love Ginger's message, and I wanted it recorded somewhere.

Roseola Boy

Somewhere amongst our travels through several states and six different beds (four homes, two hotels) Ked picked up Roseola--a few days of fever and then a few days of rash. My typically very active boy just wanted to be held all day, poor little guy. It made me so happy several days later when suddenly he was his happy, active, exploratory, mischief-maker self.

With the rash. 10 1/2 months

Portion of a roll of toilet paper: Pennies

20+ minutes of contentedness from an otherwise upset little boy: Priceless!

My aching back couldn't take holding him any longer, so I let him do what he's always wanted to do. He loved it! Unfortunately he also liked eating it. And I let him play with it a little too long, and it was all over the house in tiny pieces. But the quick cleanup was totally worth it.

S.S.

Nightly family scripture study. (My mom used to call it "S.S.", but we always did it in the morning.) It was fun to see how the kids were really into it and participated in reading and answering questions.

If you click on the picture to make it bigger, you can see the following:

-Caleb reading his imaginary scriptures (looks like it, anyway)

-Ginger demonstrating how warm it is with her personal fan

-Ethan using his Book of Mormon as a telescope

-Rod showing Jenna how to find the scriptures on the Internet

-All the kids wearing "silly bandz"

Deep in the Heat of Texas

After Iowa, we drove to Texas to see my sister Heidi and her family. Turns out we came the same time as my brother Rod's family, my sister Wendy, and Ginger and Jason's kids.

Ryan, Jenna, Gabe, Sam, Ked, Holly. They never saw me jumping on the trampoline. It was way too hot. Never had such an easy time getting into a pool, though!

Brady and Holly watch Ked climbed the stairs. Ked LOVES stairs. I'm glad we don't have any!

The kids loved Ked, even though he was Mr. Grouch a good portion of the time, due to a fever.

Ked was sick with a fever most of the time we were in Texas, so we weren't as active as we would have liked to be, but it was still great being able to hang out with my siblings and their families. As usual, I regret not getting better pictures of my siblings!

The Iowa Way

We had a lot of fun with the family the week of the wedding. We were in Sam's home town four or five days, then stayed two nights with Sam's brother Morgan and his family a few hours away.

Morgan, still in his work clothes, shows us his new bike. And tricks!

We missed Guy, but the kids loved the wagon he bought before he left.

Eli, Henry, Ked, Josh

Sam struts his stuff. Gordon's other truck is a semi. Emily, Ked, and Henry

Once Ked figured out he could stand in the wagon, it made things a little more difficult. I think he was just practicing surfing.

I still can't get over the idea that 18 year old Gordon is driving a semi (this one). Eli thinks it's cool too.

Dan (Gordon) and Sam, launching Eli in a friend's pool.

Ked's still uncertain about swimming pools.

Sam and Ked. Dan and Eli and Morgan and Josh in the background.

I love to see how much fun Sam has with his family. And I love when he laughs like this! (Outside at the end of the reception.)

Sam an' Shan

"Hey guys!" Dan impersonating his big bro.

After the bouquet toss. The plan was this: Amy and Ginny block out, Shannon swoop in and grab the flowers. Didn't quite work (flowers were thrown a little to the side--to the girl that was already engaged), but it was fun to watch.

Nauvoo

One of the side benefits of marrying Sam is getting to go to Nauvoo somewhat regularly. I still haven't seen many of the sites, but I love the temple and the special history it has. . . and imagining how much Ginger would have loved to have seen it rebuilt, after having spent a semester in Nauvoo when there were only the cornerstones to mark where the original building had been well over a century earlier.

Can you tell that it was hot and humid? Actually a nicer day compared to how bad it can be!

Ked practicing his new walking skills. He loved climbing the steps too.

Beth and Wade, July 10, 2010

We were so happy to be at the sealing ceremony of Beth (Sam's sister) and Wade. They make a great couple, and since we are the only ones that hadn't met Wade until that week, we're looking forward to getting to know him more!

It was great to have Sam's whole family all together, except for Guy who is currently serving as a missionary in Brazil.

Walking!

Ked took his first two steps a few weeks ago, but took his first several steps July 3rd, chasing his cousin Paige when she took a toy stroller away from him. Then during his visit with his other cousin Dane in Kentucky a few days later, he spent the late evening walking back and forth on the porch. The next few days were spent with his Iowa toddler cousins,where he really started walking more and more. I definitely think being around the other toddlers got him going sooner. He loves being with his cousins. And their toys.

Just a short clip.

July 10, 2010

10 months, 1 week

Teeth!

Top two first.

July 1, 2010

10 months

"I love to see the temple. . ."

Raleigh, North Carolina Temple. June 12, 2010

In the stake center nearby (as we wait for Sam), Ked shows off his tongue contortion skills. He is always sticking his tongue out and twisting it around. It was a VERY hot and humid day, and we were really grateful the stake center was open.

Crutches

Since mid-May, Ked has stood without support for several seconds on rare occasions. A week ago we were playing croquet with some friends for FHE and decided to see what Ked could do with the sticks as a little support. We were surprised and impressed! He stayed up for probably a minute, and was lifting the sticks up and down, sometimes at the same time.

June 7, 2010 Ked 9 months

Ked's Extra Aunt

Kristel, one of my good friends from college, came and stayed with us for a few days. It was great having her and catching up. Using a phrase Kristel uses with some of her close family friends, I've started to call her Ked's "extra aunt." As if he didn't already have enough. . . :)

At the duck pond on Virginia Tech campus.

Hungry

Ked eating his lunch. . . tray.

5/24/2010

Little Hikes

June 5, 2010

Sam and I took Ked in his backpack (when he'd stay in it--he's starting to not like it as much) to a couple of small hikes. The forests and scenery were beautiful, and it was fun being out together.

Ked and Amber at the Wind Rock overlook. Ked gives a cheer at our (ten minute hike) accomplishment.

We'd thought about inviting our friends, Jason and Laura and kids, to come with us. But since it was last minute and we were kind of playing it by ear (Ked's schedule) and we got side tracked, we didn't. To our surprise, there was their car at the trail head of War Spur (and they had been thinking of inviting us as well)! We caught up to them just as they were leaving the overlook. They came back and hung out and hiked back with us.

We ate lunch and explored the cool rock ledges at the overlook and let Ked climb around. We just didn't let Ked go near the big, fat rattle-snake that shared the ledges with us!

All the kiddos fell asleep on the 1.7 mile hike back (until I woke one when I had them stop to take the picture). I did try to prop Ked's head up, but he really did want it just as it was.

It's in the name. . .

While I was shopping with my mom, Ked got bored in the shoe section and wriggled out of my arms and crawled away. I followed him, and as I went to pick him up, I realized why he had crawled over to and climbed up on the boxes of shoes he did. Maybe he can read his own name!

It's times like these that I love a camera phone!

Ked 8 1/2 months

Few more of the family reunion

Gram and Gramp Z visited on Mother's Day. Ked liked sitting with Great Gramma and playing with Great Gramp's keychain (especially the pocket knife--good thing he couldn't open it).

Why did I not think to get Dad in the picture for a four generation shot?

Ked loved all his cousins and aunts and uncles (except when he was grumpy). I love this shot of him with his Aunt Kate.

I was really lucky that Devonae's baby blessing coincided with my stay.

Rod and Monica's number seven!

Boogie Boarding

I have always loved being in the waves of the ocean. When my family went to the beach, I was always the first one in the water and would stay in as long as my blue-lipped, almost hypothermic body could take it. It was always disappointing to me, though, that right when I couldn't take the cold any longer, my siblings would finally decide to get in (either for the first time, or for a second short dip). So I often ended up being a loner on my boogie board.

This time, however, having Ked severely limited my time in the water, and when all the girls decided to go in together, I was with them! We had a blast together. I still ended up being a loner in the end, but the company was fun while it lasted!

Wendy, Nat, Kate, Amber

The waves right in front of the beach house are never fantastic, but they were way better this year than they have been in years. The weather was perfect too! Sunny and warm, with the only real cold and windy weather on Sunday when we don't go in the water anyway. Nice!

A seal was swimming around when we were out together, and I got within twenty feet or so (?) of it. Pretty cool. We saw plenty of dolphins as usual, but none up close this time.

Yea, Heidi and I were the lucky ones to get stuck with the bright, neon green "safety vest" wet suits. So none of our sisters hit us. The waves didn't seem to take notice, though, and pounded us all pretty good at one time or another.

Jen, Wendy, Nat, Kate, Amber, Heidi, Brandi

Speaking of limited time in the ocean. . . I knew this day would come. I remember when I was 19 or so realizing that when I was pregnant some day in the future, I wouldn't be able to boogie board. Well, I still boogie boarded when I was five months pregnant (though not at my best). But then I realized that once I had a baby (or more), I wouldn't be able to just go into the water anytime I wanted to. I've had many selfish moments in my nine months of motherhood, but this was definitely one of the most. (Well, maybe second to being woken up multiple times in the middle of the night on a regular basis. . . but both sacrifices are, of course, totally worth it!) It was kind of hard not going in when the waves and weather were so good! At the same time, a lot of the joy I have experienced in the past through different activities is now being transferred into sharing/showing/teaching Ked in those similar pursuits. It totally thrilled me to get to take him to the ocean the first time, in the water, on the rocks, in the sand, in the little pool. I was still more excited about it than he was this time, but I'm looking forward to our continued adventures together.

Beach House

Ked didn't seem to think much of the ocean (he showed no reaction when I put his feet in the frigid, moving water), but he loved the sand. It apparently tastes pretty good!

As Mom tried to shush the crowds before the dinner prayer, Holly was ready before anyone else, using Dad (her Grampa) as an arm rest to fold her arms on.

Carson, Ethan, and Gabe, trying to look as professional on the skim board as their cousins/brothers Jacob and Roddy.

At the tide pools.

Say "Freeze!" Jason's family getting sprayed by a wave against the seawall, just as they were posing for a photo. Love this shot. Click on it for the full effect.